Gay Husbands: If You Even SUSPECT, then—
Okay, the research is in full force and effect. There’s a lot of stuff there, and I think it’s good stuff, that will confirm your suspicions if you have them. But one piece of advice stuck out as so smart and informed that I wanted to get it down here as soon as possible.
Now look. I know what you’re going to think when you read this. You’re going to say, “Well, that seems harsh. Why not wait until afer I know for sure?” There is no reaching someone who justifies or excuses behavior away, so go back to Google and try again. For the women that are reachable and teachable, I tell you this:
EVEN BEFORE YOU ARE ENTIRELY CERTAIN WHETHER OR NOT YOUR HUSBAND IS GAY, AT THE VERY LEAST START HAVING PROTECTED SEX! If he is cheating, let alone cheating with another man, he is probably trying to keep this behavior on the “down low.” If that’s the case, making sure that you’re safe and protected is of paramount importance, even if you’re not already certain he’s cheating on you with another man.
Get me? “I caught him watching porn, but that’s all.” Fine. Protect yourself. Until his guilt or innocence can be established, it is not too early to keep yourself from being the victim of a tragic disease.
Man. I’m learning a lot. I’ll be sharing the rest of it with you soon. But this, this thing about safety. It needs to get out there loud and often.